Saturday, November 7, 2009

Walk this way...

I mentioned in my last post that I'd post pics of Race for the Cure and Light the Night. Well... Finally, here they are!

First up, Race for the Cure.

My cousin is a breast cancer survivor so this event means a lot to me, especially because I'm able to do it in Knoxville while the rest of my family participate in the event back home. It's an amazing experience to see so many people turn out to walk 3 miles bright and early on a Saturday morning. When you see those walking in memory of or as survivors, it really hits home that you being there means the world to someone.

My sorority before the race started. We won 2nd largest sorority/fraternity for the fourth year running. We aim for second as Zeta should and does win first - it's their philanthropy and I'd expect nothing less of them.



The start of the race. I was near the front of the back believe it or not. There were about 3 times that many people behind me.


I got teary-eyed when I saw this couple. You can't tell it in the picture, but they're holding hands. She's walking in celebration of herself with her doctors listed as a way of thanking them, as well as her husband. He's walking in honor of her - his 'sweet wife' as his sign says. I thought they personified what love is.


I went from almost crying over the sweet couple to laughing at this little boy. They start them early.


A few of us after the race.

And now, Light the Night!

Light the Night was another amazing event my sorority did a few days after Race for the Cure to race money for Leukemia and Lymphoma. Preppy Southern Princess mobilized us and did a great job. We walked in honor of a little girl named Piper.


My sorority before the walk. We ended up leading it off!


This is the Torchbearer, a symbol of what it means to be a Tennessee Volunteer. I may not get the saying exactly right because I'm not looking at it, but it goes something like this: "The Torchbearer is one who stands in the shadow to give light to others." I thought this picture, with the Torchbearer in the front and so many volunteers in the background exemplified what UT stands for.


In theory, I'm an adult. So are my sorority sisters. Give us light up balloons and we revert to childhood. Throw in glow in the dark bracelets and we're done for.


We got our picture taken with Smokey!

Me and PSP before the race!

If either (or both!) of these events take place anywhere near you, I urge you to participate - both of them are such amazing experiences and reminders of how blessed we all are.

Friday, October 30, 2009

Hair gone wild

I'm "multi-tasking" at the moment - uploading Light the Night and Big/Little week photos to Facebook, tweaking my resume before I send it off for a couple of internships I'm really interested in, listening to the same three Michael Jackson songs over and over again ("Smooth Criminal," "Black or White," "Thriller" - literally on about the tenth listening of them and still dancing just as much as I was on listen one) and watching 'Say Yes to the Dress - which means I'll likely be on Klienfeld's website in about 20 minutes in search of my wedding dress.

But I want to talk about my hair...

My entire life, all 23 years of it, I have had terminally straight hair. Save for when I was 3 and my grandpa talked my mom into putting a perm in it - I was almost a dead ringer for Shirley Temple for about 6 months. I like to pretend the spiral perm I just HAD to have in third grade never happened (I was going for the Topanga look from Boy Meets World that time...). Other than chemically-induced curls, my hair has been pin straight my entire life. I have tried for years to find a curling iron/hot rollers and styling product combo that will make it not only curl but stay curled. Tried and failed. Erically.

For prom, the stylist (my aunt) was determined to make it stay curled. She sprayed each section of hair with $25 dollar hair spray, wrapped it around the curling iron, sprayed again, let the curl go and sprayed once more. With my thick, long hair, we went through 2 bottles of hair spray. She sprayed down the final product with at least half a can and warned me to avoid open flames. She swore it would still be curled by the time I came home. Halfway through prom, guess who had straight hair? Yep. It happened.

Fast forward to about 2 weeks ago. I went to bed with my hair wet and when I woke up the next morning, I had two perfect Taylor Swift-like ringlets at the nape of my neck, hiding under my hair. I chalked it up to sleeping on a wet head.

A day or so later, I showered and let my hair air dry. Those two curls reappeared, perfect as ever. I was amused. So I began a series of not so scientific tests.

First, I tried the air drying again. Curls returned. Next, went to bed with hair wet again. Yep, curls still there. Then I went to bed with my hair wet and didn't brush it. Not really sure what the logic was behind that but it is what it is. Curls and more tangles then I have had in the last 5 years combined were all present. Brushing my hair was painful that day. So then I blow-dried it (I generally only blow dry it if I shower before class or if I'm going out somewhere since I have a problem with my hair drying out from too much heat exposure) just the same as I always do. Straight as usual. I proceeded to my sorority meeting. Come back, had slight waves and the beginning of my nape of the neck ringlets.

Now, about two weeks later, I'm up to four ringlets and my hair is getting wavier. I can literally see a difference from week to week. Yesterday, I had almost legit curls all around the front. Today and yesterday it's been especially wavy though I managed to tone it down a tad for Big/Little Reveal.

This curl/wave thing is amazing me. I've always wished my hair would curl on command. Now it's just doing it. I'm not sure what's going on with it. I haven't changed styling products, haven't had it cut, and in fact, it's longer now then it's been in a long time which, in my head, should make it heavier and less likely to curl, especially since I have REALLY thick hair. It's in a pony tail right now and I've got all kinds of waves working for me.

Just watch... After 23 years of complaining about it's lack of curls, I'm going to spend the next 23 complaining about having to straighten it. I'm *almost* willing to make that trade off. Almost. Jury's still out on that one.

Anyone else had their hair go from pin strait to wavy/curly? Or vice versa?

I'm thinking it might be a Tennessee thing. One of my sorority sisters was telling me her hair was pin straight her entire life. Then she was running late one morning, didn't have time to dry her hair and ran out to class on The Hill. When she came back to her dorm, she had waves - and has had them every since.

Sunday, October 25, 2009

Weekend in Review - With Pictures!

Friday night, I wanted to go see David Nail. He was playing at Tin Roof on The Strip, less than ten minutes of a walk from my dorm. Instead, I stayed in because Saturday was an early morning - and my room looked like something pink and glittery had exploded in it thanks to the various gifts I'm making for my littles. Since my dad was coming the next day, vacuuming/cleaning the junk pile that my desk was buried under was a necessity. I also needed (fine - wanted) to decorate my hall for Halloween. We have the Boys and Girls Club coming on Wednesday to trick-or-treat and I wanted my hall to look awesome. And there's the whole floor competition thing too and well, I like to win... So instead of seeing the beautiful, talented, did I say beautiful? "Red Light" singer, I spent some quality time with purple butcher paper, masking tape and a vacuum.

Some of the other halls in the building are downright scary/morbid. One of them has a 'dead body' lying in the lobby with a trail of blood leading to it. Another of them turned her floor into a graveyard and put tombstones outside of each of her residents' rooms that say R.I.P. and list the room's tenants on them. I thought that to be a little morbid but to each their own. I decided to take my hall a different route and make it a little more kid friendly. My initial plan was to cover the lobby walls with purple and make a big haunted house with tombstones, bats and ghosts. When I realized none of the three of us working on the decorations could draw so much as a stick figure, plans changed. I now have the 'Graveyard of the SEC' on my walls - no offense, of course, to those of you out there who aren't Tennessee fans! Take a look:



This is actually my bulletin board for October which has been up since the first of the month. It's all the 'haunted' places around campus and since hauntings fascinate me, I was pretty excited about all the stories on our campus. Of course, next semester I have a evening/night class on The Hill which has not one but two hauntings associated with it and because of the way my mind works, you can guarantee I'll be on the lookout for hell dogs and guys wearing bowler hats.


Spider webs cover the window, the water fountain and hang above the elevator doors. You can't see it in this picture, but there were five (5!) real spiders on the other side of the window. I've had a bit of a spider problem on my floor but as long as their outside, I'm okay and they get to live to see another day.


The big tombstone is for South Carolina since we play them on Halloween. If you can't read it, it says 'Here lies South Carolina. They met their match in Neyland Stadium on Halloween night.'


The three smaller tombstones say: 'Here lies Georgia. They lost a dog fight.' 'R.I.P. Alabama. They were rolled by their own tide.' And my personal favorite: 'Here lies Florida. They were stomped in the swamp.'


Here's a look at the finished product. Bats and ghosts are hanging from the ceiling and all the lights in the halls are covered with blue and purple. This was taken during the day. It looks AWESOME at night.

In my head, I thought it would take - drum roll please - and hour to decorate. Yeah... 4 hours later, I was cleaning up and getting to work on the disaster that was my room. I had Race for the Cure bright and early the next day so I had planned on being in bed by 11 at the absolute latest. Naturally, I climbed into bed at 12:45 and couldn't sleep. I think I finally fell asleep somewhere around 3 a.m. and woke up 3 and a half hours later to leave for the race.

Race for the Cure was amazing, despite the ungodly early hour. This is my second year doing it and I plan on doing it again next year. It's so inspiring. I'm going to do a post later this week with more pictures from it - I've got some really sweet and/or funny ones!


This is my sorority's team. For the fourth year running, we won second in the Sorority/Fraternity division. We gun for second - Zeta always wins first, as they should - this is their philanthropy and they do a great job raising money and helping with the event. About 15,000 people participated. Just amazing.


A few of us after the race was over.

I desperately wanted to go back to bed when I got back, but instead, I had breakfast with one of the other RAs (who also did Race for the Cure) and then, while lying in bed, got interested in 16 and Pregnant on MTV. Then... Then, the Tennessee/Alabama game came on.

All week, I'd been conniving on how to get out of hanging out with my daddy and his girlfriend for a few hours so I could watch the game, despite the whole 'haven't seen them since the first week of August' thing. I was invited to watch at one of my friend's apartments and Preppy Southern Princess invited me over for Spaghetti, but instead, I was waiting on my Daddy. Naturally, they left later than expected, the GPS broke, they stopped at an antique store, they took a wrong turn and then they managed to get completely turned around once in Knoxville. I was okay with this - I got to watch the game.

Naturally, my phone rings with maybe 2 minutes left on the clock. Try giving your dad/his girlfriend directions while watching your team come thisclose to beating the number one team in the country. Daddy and his GF got here with about 30 seconds left in the game. I left them waiting in the lobby to watch our kicker have his kick blocked. I did everything but cry. And I was extremely close to doing that. But I'm ecstatic with how the Vols played, extremely proud of Crompton and have a really good feeling as to the direction of our program. Visions of National Championships are dancing in my head a few years down the road. :) I'm also hoping and praying for Bama to take the SEC crown. And I'm apparently getting an Alabama shirt from by Big for Christmas. She's all Tennessee until we play the Tide.

After helping Daddy and GF find their hotel, we went for dinner and daddy gave me a care package from my grandma. My mini fridge is full of goodies and I'm $25 bucks richer. LOVE my grandma! Daddy and GF came up to see my room and I spent 15 minutes convincing my Daddy my lofted bed was not to high (which is a lie - I have to vault into it as it's not so much on a loft but raised in the air) and that he did not need to lower it. Apparently he's concerned that I'll fall out and get hurt. God bless him. The floor is concrete under this thin carpet I have. Regadless of how high up it is, if I fall out of my bed, it's going to hurt.

Today was my sorority's Founder's Day. I crawled out of bed around 10, thinking I had at least 2 hours before Daddy got to my dorm to pick me up for the lunch. Oh no. Hotel checkout was at 10 and Daddy and GF decided to come hang out in my dorm room for an hour and a half. He thankfully called before he left the hotel. I met them in the lobby in pajamas with wet hair, no make up, glasses and a mug of coffee. There were jokes that I couldn't get up early enough to be ready when they got there but I could get up in time to fix myself coffee. Basically.

Lunch was wonderful. Daddy met several of my friends, his girlfriend, who is 100% hippie and his total and complete opposite, dressed appropriately and was rather pleasant company. I made a slide show for the event that played while we ate and Daddy deemed one of my best friends 'cool.'


Me and Daddy after dinner. This is the first pic I have of he and I since my high school graduation. I learned from it that turtlenecks aren't my friend and my hair... Well, that's a whole other blog post for later this week, the fickle stuff.


My sorority after the ceremony. Please excuse the giant bush. I handed daddy's girfriend my camera so I could go pose and she had to jostle for a position between all the parents/family/friends to take a picture. We also took a funny picture and everyone shot down my friend and I's brilliant idea - we wanted everyone to do the Heisman and send the picture to UT Athletic's PR department with 'Berry for Heisman' photoshopped onto it. Apparently skirts and dresses weren't conducive to doing the Heisman. But that picture is happening. Even if it's just her and I doing it...

Well, that's my weekend in a kind of big nutshell. It was busy as all get out but I loved every minute of it, especially having Daddy here, even if it was for less than 24 hours. I was really happy he got to see me in action with something that means the world to me.

Next on the agenda? Reading one more chapter of Economics for the night, breaking and baking (yes, breaking and baking - I don't do the homemade stuff) cookies for my littles tomorrow night and maybe doing some writing before bed. Busy week ahead!

Happy Halloween week everyone!

My first award!

I'll be posting a weekend recap at some point - pictures included - but Preppy in Pearls gave me my very first award and I've been trying to find time to get around to posting it all weekend! So naturally I'm posting when I have maybe 5 minutes to do so! Thank you so much Preppy in Pearls! I love reading your blog - you sound so much like me sometimes! - and I was thrilled to receive my first award from you!


Here are the rules:

Use only one word, pass along to six favorite bloggers, and tell 'em you did so.

So, here we go:

1. Where is your cell phone? Desk

2. Your hair? Towel

3. Your mother? Baseball

4. Your father? Driving

5. Your favorite food? Grandma's

6. Your dream last night? None

7. Your favorite drink? Tea

8. Your dream/goal? Happiness

9. What room are you in? Dorm

10. Your hobby? Writing

11. Your fear? Failure

12. Where do you want to be in six years? Nashville

13. Where were you last night? No

14. Something that you aren't? Mean

15. Muffins? BananaNut

16. Wish list item? RangeRover

17. Where did you grow up? Virginia

18. Last thing you did? Shower

19. What are you wearing? Pajamas

20. Your TV? FoodNetwork

21. Your pets? Pups

22. Friends? Fabulous

23. Your life? Busy

24. Your mood? Happy

25. Missing someone? Family

26. Vehicle? None

27. Something you're not wearing? Shoes

28. Your favorite store? BananaRepublic

29. Your favorite color? Pink

30. When was the last time you laughed? Today

31. Last time you cried? Yesterday

32. Your best friend?(s) Sisters

33. One place that I could go over and over? Beach

34. One person who emails you regularly? Sorority

35. Favorite place to eat? Grandma's

I pick:
Preppy Southern Princess
California Born and Virginia Raised
Semi-Slacker Mom
Allyson & Dave
A Boston Belle
The Seattle Smith's

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Feels like home

My good friend, Preppy Southern Princess, wrote a blog yesterday about her 'southern songs playlist' - songs that remind her of being southern. Well I loved that post. As a lot of you know, country music is my passion and the business I plan to work in after graduation. I love music and one of the best feelings in the world is hearing a song for the first time and feeling something. The line from Kenny Chesney's "I Go Back" - which is my absolute favorite song ever - "we've all had a song that's somehow stamped our lives, takes us to another place and time" speaks volumes to me. I have an entire post on my website about the songs that, so far, have stamped my life if you'd like to read it.

Before I make my own list of 'southern songs,' let me give a little background about where I grew up. It'll make my list make a little more sense.

I grew up in the country. Not the suburbs or even the outskirts of the suburbs but in the country, at least 30 minutes from everywhere. Everything moves at it's own pace and everyone knows everyone else - and all of their business. Seriously, can't get away with anything. Learned that one the hard way. I live on a mountain with my grandparents across the street and my aunt next door - two more aunts further down the road and my great grandma's house sits on the highest part of the mountain as a sort of memorial to her. We've been known to sit under the apple tree in our front yard in lawn chairs and drink margaritas out of mason jars and our hound dogs like to sleep under the porch. I've become a city girl since I left but these are my roots and I will always go back to them and I will never forget where I came from. Without further ado, here's my list of southern songs - the ones that paint a picture of where I grew up and set it to music:

1.) "Back Where I Come From" - Kenny Chesney
My grandma's TV really was black and white until a handful of years ago as was ours when I was tiny. And I do know who makes the moonshine... Never grab a mason jar out of my grandpa's fridge after he tells you he went to the spring tap and got fresh spring water. Never.

2.) "Small Town USA" - Justin Moore
Pretty much how I wasted my time in high school

3.) "What Country Is" - Luke Bryan
This is a track off his new album. I heard it for the first time when I saw him live in September and I was blown away. This song? This is everything I knew while growing up. My Boones Farm kiss still stands out in my mind. Listen to the song here.

4.) "Song of the South" - Alabama
And "Dixieland Delight" and "Mountain Music," also by Alabama. These songs - and this band - just scream 'southern.'

5.) "Sounds So Good" - Ashton Shephard
I spent many an afternoon with the sound of a cooler slushing on the back of the truck while riding down by the river.

6.) "Sorority Girl" - Luke Bryan
Pretty much my life now, set to music.

7.) "Sweet Home Alambama" - Lynyrd Skynyrd
Except I sometimes like to change it up and say "Sweet Home Tennessee" now that I'm a Vol and all...

8.) "Pour Some Sugar On Me" - Deff Leppard
It's not exactly about being southern but gosh darn it, you can't have a southern soundtrack without this song on it.

9.) "Fishin' In The Dark" - Nitty Gritty Dirt Band
Been there, done that.

10.) "She's Country" - Jason Aldean
From the songs I play to prayers I pray.

Saturday, October 17, 2009

Just a little almost homesick

I miss my Mama.

There. I said it. I miss my Mama. And my Daddy. The twins. Papa. Granny. Grandma. Even my stepdad who watches far too much Family Guy for his own good.

I LOVE Tennessee and can't imagine being anywhere else but around this time last year, just like this year, I started missing home a little. To be honest, a homecooked meal - I'm talking Mama or Grandma's homecooking too, the kind with lots of butter and frying away of nutrients if you're my grandmother or just darn good food if you're my mother - would be heaven. I am so tired of campus food it's not even funny. I could technically cook something I guess but a minifridge is only so big and only holds so much food. Right now, it's full of water and orange juice in the bottom, frozen meals at the top.

I'm also missing the fireplace. My building is, in my opinion, freezing. We're on steam heat and it won't be turned on until it is cold and stays cold. Apparently 50 degrees outside isn't cold enough for them. It is for me and I already tried sweetly asking the maintenance man if he could help me out in the heating department. He told me his sprayed my floor for spiders (that was fun...) and told me to add another blanket. See if he gets a door dec for his man cave of an office next month...

I haven't been home since the first week of Augustand I'm getting a little antsy. I'll be heading back to VA for a long weekend the Tuesday before Thanksgiving though and can't wait. The plan, right now, is that on of my really good friends is going to go home with me. Thanksgiving is an epic event in my family (the guest list stands at 50, give or take two right now) whereas her family keeps it really small. She has also never been to a small town before. She's in for a real treat...

My daddy is coming for a quick overnight visit on Saturday so that will be good. I'm lobbying him to bring food from my grandma. He didn't say much on the fact but all I need to do is call Grandma, put in a requests, and it will be on it's way to Knoxville. I'm thinking Brownies. Or muffins. Oh! Spice cake muffins... YES!

I'm sure some of you deal/delt with a touch of homesickness while away at college. How did you cope? I absolutely love Tennessee and it only takes a trip back to VA to remember why I love it so much, but I do miss the comforts of home sometimes.

Thursday, October 15, 2009

Oh my little...

It's day one of Fall Break (well, officially. I started mine yesterday) and I am utterly and completely bored. Stir crazy to the max.

Pretty much ALL of my friends and just about every girl on my floor has gone home. I couldn't because as an RA, we had to either work Fall Break or Thanksgiving break. Thanksgiving is a big deal in my family so when it was my turn to sign up for one of the two breaks, I didn't hesitate to take the last spot on Fall Break. I don't regret that at all because I'd much rather be at home gorging myself on any and all things fattening than heating up a microwaveable meal, but really - how bored can one person be?

I have plans with one of the other RAs who is still here to go to AC Moore either later today or tomorrow. She's buying things for a fundraiser she's in charge of and I'll be buying things to make for my two littles - which brings us to the point of this post.

My 'Big Sister' is utterly amazing. She is everything a Big should be and I'm excited about getting not one but two littles in a couple of weeks. But what to get them is the question...

For the first night, I'm giving them cookies in a cute container of some sort. That's to carry on a tradition - my big gave me sweets on the first night (M & M's is what I remember the most!). I've also found them awesome fleece blankets in our sorority's colors and have wooden letters to paint for them. I'm also planning on painting one or two picture frames for them.

The biggest problem is that my sorority, while just as active and in a few cases, bigger, than the Panhellenic sororities on campus, is a service sorority. It is almost impossible to find websites selling things with our letters on them and when they do, they have to be custom made. With Big/Little week starting week after next, I don't want to run the risk of not getting something on time which means I will be making basically everything.

Which brings up this question: What to make? If you have any ideas, I'd love to hear them! Some ideas that I've had/googled/found while facebook stalking photos of big/little reveal for the sororities the girls on my floor are in are:

~ a canvas and/or wooden plaque painted with a quote on it
~ a Christmas ornament with our letters
~ photo album
~ stationary
~ a mug with our letters filled with their favorite candies

Something I noticed while looking through pictures it that the majority of gifts were handmade. My Big made all of my gifts and that made them even more special. I would LOVE LOVE LOVE any suggestions you lovely ladies may have!